Shame is a policing tool, and it has been one since the first clans of humans roamed the savannas of Africa. According to evolutionary psychologists, shame—much like pain, its first cousin—shields us from harm. Pain protects our bodies, teaching us to watch out for fires and sharp blades, and to run away from angry hornets.
Shame represents another dimension of pain.
It is administered by a collective whose rules and taboos are etched into our psyches.
Its goal is the survival not of the individual but of the society.
In this sense, shame is borne of the conflict between an individual's desires and the expectations of the group.#6287•